Once in a while a rare book comes along that wrenches every nerve in our bodies and illuminates every fissure carved through our souls. Bestselling author Cynthia P. Cerny hits the nail on the head with a sculptor's precision. This book is as disquieting as it is comforting. This book ushers in urgency to simultaneously think and feel--with clarity and honesty. This is not a political book, a scientific hair splitting legal discourse or a personal opinion. It represents a treatise of the heart. A REAL Life change is yours if you wish; it begins on page 1.